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Charmdate Review: Let’s Be Honest, Here’s Why I Date Online as a Ukrainian Woman

Love or hate CharmDate, it’s still one of the best sources to find single Russian women.

As a Ukrainian woman in my mid-20s who spends her weekdays and weekends chatting with foreign men – most of whom are older than me – I hear this question from my friends and relatives way too often: “Why don’t you just date Ukrainian or Russian guys? There are plenty of them… and being in a long-distance relationship sucks, doesn’t it?”

And probably the second most popular question that I get: “There are so many perverts and weirdos on those Russian dating sites – aren’t you concerned for your safety and invasion of privacy?”

Well, honesty, I’m sick of these questions. To all my friends and relatives – and to whom it may concern – here’s my honest CharmDate review where I finally reveal the truth why so many Russian and Ukrainian girls are into online dating.

Why do I date foreigners?

Let’s get right into it. “Why don’t you just date local guys?”

The problem with local guys here in Ukraine or Russia is that most of them are unemployed, they prefer spending time with their mates – it involves booze, obviously – than spending time with their girlfriends. Needless to say, many of our local guys are unfaithful. I don’t know why, but seems like it runs in our men’s blood. To tell you the truth,

I’ve been in three serious committed relationships with three different local men. With one guy, I even thought we would get married… But oh well, then he cheated on me and it shattered my dreams. The old and boring story of a girl who had her hopes high. But that’s not the point.

The reason why I signed up on Charmdate.com – one of few reputable online dating sites for dating single Russian women – is plain and simple: I was fed up with my life here, relationship hardship, unfaithfulness, excessive drinking, and – sadly, but true – even domestic abuse, all of which I’ve experienced while dating Russian and Ukrainian men.

So YES, I am proud to say that I’m a Ukrainian woman who is using online dating to seek new relationship, and NO, not all women who sign up on dating sites to find foreign men are gold diggers. I don’t know about other women, but I sure as hell know why I’m here: I want to find love. Not the random hookups that you can usually have as a young, not-at-all-bad-looking girl. True love that lasts until our last breath.

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Long-distance relationships: why they’re AWESOME

Many people say that online dating is bad because you have to maintain a long-distance relationship and you have to chat for months prior to finally meeting in person.

Well, you know what? In this context, online dating reminds me of the old times, when people used to send letters to one another, wait for months for them to get delivered, exchange poetry, fall in love using handwritten words and not even seeing each other’s faces other than in photographs.

CharmDate reminds of that good old correspondence between two single hearts who are falling in love with one another not because they got sexually aroused seeing you, but because they become obsessed with one another’s personality and want to take time getting to know each other. They want to know more about that person. That anticipation that builds up with every message. You get to the boiling point when you no longer can sit there and just WRITE, you want to see that person, you want to touch him/her. You want to feel that person’s presence NEAR you. That’s what I call falling in love.

And CharmDate allows you to feel all that. And unlike letter exchanges from centuries ago, today you can actually live chat with girls online! But it gets better: you can even have a Cam Chat using a webcam, see each other in real time, fool around together, drink wine simultaneously even though you’re hundreds of kilometers away from one another… How awesome is that?

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Real-life dating sucks, DEAL with it!

If I had to choose between real-life dating and online dating, I’d choose the latter over and over again. You know why? Because when you meet someone at a bar or in the street, you never know if that man is just hitting on easy target and dump you as soon as he does. These relationships come with a short lifespan.

In the case of online dating, meanwhile, you get to see the real face of the man who is chatting with you. How many messages does he send you? Does he send you messages in the middle of the day or only after work? How often does he think about you? Does he ever spend Friday nights chatting with you ONLINE instead of spending weekends boozing and hitting on others girls at a local nightclub? These things matter and they can define either a real man or just another playboy who only cares about sleeping around with as many girls as possible.

I’d ignore you online if you made any of these mistakes

Okay, you’re probably wondering by now: Am I hot? Well, I wouldn’t brag about my looks – I’m not the one to judge myself – but I’d say that I get about 30 compliments about my looks online, and about 10 in real life.

What does it mean? It means that when it comes to speaking to girls, men online tend to be more brave as opposed to men in real life. Is this a bad thing? Not at all! Real-life conversations can be really awkward. Besides, most people are in a hurry and minding their own business – so when you get stopped in the middle of the street by someone asking for your number, don’t feel offended if we turn you down, because, dude, we have rough days, too!

To tell you the truth, I’ve chatted with many men on CharmDate, and I know what things attract women and how to score more points when it comes to online dating Russian women. I consider myself somewhat a woman with some life experience haha… so blow away the dust from your pen and start taking notes!

First of all, REALLY work on your dating profile before you start sending out messages to girls. Don’t be cocky on your profile – we don’t like that. No group photos – we aren’t here to play mind games. Be nice to all women, even those who ignore you or turn you down.

Above all, don’t make up stories about yourself and don’t lie about your height, weight, marital status, financial status and all those things that you think matter but they REALLY don’t!

Is CharmDate scam? Let’s be honest here…

I often hear people say: “Online dating is dangerous because of invasion of privacy and all that…” Well, I don’t know about other sites, but when I’m on CharmDate, I can sleep with a peaceful mind. The company seems to care about their users and they take extra measures to ensure that everyone feels safe and protected.

There was once a guy who kept asking questions that were way too personal and tried to find out where I live. I panicked and contacted customer service to report the guy. CharmDate’s customer services responded within minutes, which shows that the company takes safety of users seriously.

As for all those CharmDate scam reviews… I mean, really? Just because a woman ignored you online or turned down your request to send her nude pics doesn’t make her a fraud or fake. I’ve got this message many times: “Send me your nude pic so I know you aren’t fake.” Really, dude? Is that how you approach a girl?

No wonder that those guys never get responses, and you can only imagine what’s going on in their head: “They aren’t responding so they must be fake and all scammers!” That’s just nonsense!!

For those of you wondering if CharmDate girls are real – they are! At least I know I am 😛 and I’m looking for true love. My question is: are nice guys real? If you think CharmDate girls are scammers and fake, I think that good guys don’t exist anymore. Prove me wrong! The game begins…

On the path to true love…

On a more serious note, I know for a fact that just because we haven’t found true love yet doesn’t mean we will be forever alone. I’m sure that there is a life partner for everyone – and it takes time to find him or her.

And when you do, it doesn’t matter how many failed relationships you have had in your life or how many times your heart was broken into tiny pieces, all it matters is that all your decision lead to meeting THIS ONE person. So it’s totally worth it.

Keep your head up even if things don’t work out with someone – it means you weren’t meant to be together. Keep searching for YOUR person. He or she is there somewhere – you just need to find.

I haven’t found my true love on CharmDate yet, but I will do whatever it takes to find one.

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Maslenitsa: eat pancakes with beautiful Russian girls

Maslenitsa is a Russian holiday that goes back to Middle Ages and a good opportunity for foreigners to meet Russian women for marriage, since it’s a family holiday. Maslenitsa is celebrated before the Lent. This year, the holiday was celebrated from March 7 through March 13.

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Although Russian girls tend to spend Maslenitsa with their family, they still go out to celebrate it with their girlfriends. But the thing is that this holiday is not as popular as, say, Eastern, in Russia, which is why it’s not celebrated by most Russian women, only the most religious ones.

However, knowing what’s Maslenitsa and when it’s celebrated still gives you an edge among all foreigners who want to meet Russian brides with the help of online dating websites. The mere fact that you wish a girl ‘happy Maslenitsa’ via online chat will surely attract the Russian girl’s attention.

Russian girls date only the foreigners who take at least some interest in the Russian culture, traditions and language. However, there are also those who don’t need their man to know about all that, as their ultimate goal is to leave the country as soon as possible.

But if your Russian girl plans on staying in Russia, she’ll surely appreciate your knowledge of Russian holidays.

There were lots of rites and ceremonies surrounding Maslenitsa, but with the passage of time pretty much all of them have been forgotten. The only thing that remained attached to Maslenitsa is that Christians eat pancakes this whole week (in 2016, it was from March 7 through March 13).

And you can imagine that there are quite a lot of pancakes to eat! So if you’re chatting with a Russian girl of your interest in an online chat, building up the conversation, trying to be funny and all, you could make a joke about the amount of pancakes Russians eat on Maslenitsa.

For example, you could make a joke that she should stop eating so many pancakes on Maslenitsa otherwise, say, “I won’t take you as my Russian bride.” It’s funny and it’s unlikely she will find it offensive in any way. Especially if the girl clearly has no weight problem whatsoever.

Also, knowing a pancake recipe or two would certainly help you build up the conversation with a Russian girl during Maslenitsa. You could even ask her to share her favorite pancakes recipes with you. And Russian women sure love to help and please their men however they can.

Or even better, you could share your favorite pancake recipes with that Russian girl. And if she indeed cooks pancakes following your recipe, and the entire family enjoys it and asks her where did she find out about such a recipe, you’ll surely get approval from the family.

And the family’s approval of the choice of man is very important for Russian babes. So if your goal is to meet Russian mail order brides, Maslenitsa could be a good opportunity to do that.

If you ever get to the stage of coming to Russia to meet a Russian babe you chatted with on some dating website, you could come on Maslenitsa and spend a week with her eating delicious pancakes. The girl will surely appreciate your efforts to show that you care about her religion and respect Russian traditions.

Or even better, you could visit her in Russia and take her out to restaurants around the town so that she could have at least some kind of respite from munching on pancakes. FYI, most Russian women eat pancakes only on Maslenitsa, and then they avoid them the entire year. Guess why? That’s right, because they had way too many pancakes on Maslenitsa.

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Who is better? European woman or American women? To date or be friends with

Who has more variety?

If you want to find more variety, then you need to look for American girls to date, European girls tend to be similar in their looks, and therefore you will not have a lot of variety when it comes to them. For example if you are looking at the New York or the Boston Subway, you are more likely to see a lot of different women. With varying skin tones, and shapes and accents, and languages. This diversity is not normal to Europe and thus women will tend to be representative of that lack of diversity.

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Who is prettier?

Okay so we understand that this can be a pretty subjective thing whether you are considering dating Russian women or whether you are actually dating Russian women, if you are, a little suggestion, keep an eye out for Russian American women, trust us, you will thank us. We mean it you will thank us, if you thought Russian girls were amazing wait till you meet Russian Americans. Okay, we got distracted what with all the talk about Russian girls. Point being, Europeans are definitely prettier!

Who dresses best?

No offense to all the American ladies out there, but Europeans dress better, maybe it’s the fact that they have better dressing senses or maybe they just like it, but they on average tend to be better dressed than the Americans. Like every sexy hot Russian girl is taught since her childhood to dress up and wear decent makeup while leaving the house. Not only to respect others, but also to make her feel good about herself. This distinguishes Russian girl from the Americans. Some people like dressing up and thus want their partner to do the same, we realize that there may be those of you out there, who dress up but don’t want their lady to dress up, maybe so other guys don’t ogle at her, I mean you are a guy, you know what is going on in your head LOL. But on a serious note, not cool bro. this is a poor reason to want this and we hope that you grow up from this. You should both want to look fantastic and not just for the benefit of those around you, but yourself, you deserve to look and feel amazing.

What do you want?

If you are looking for a more mature, and lasting relationship, we suggest you go for the European ladies because they are by nature more mature and understanding. Maybe its all the fancy dressing, or maybe it’s all the classiness overflow, whatever it is, they are a delight to be around. Especially Russian women are more likely the keepers. Single women in Russia want to settle down but not so desperately like American women, you can feel the difference. Unless you are in the kind of crazy party fun, then maybe americans girls or Russian americans are more up your alley. There are a lot of Russian women looking for love, just take your chance.

Play games? Or don’t play games?

There comes a time in everyone’s life when they must decide if they want to play games or not. Well if you have decided you don’t want to, then we suggest you choose European girls, if you have decided that you want to play games and that you like that kind of interest in life, then we are not judging you, rest assured, but then you should definitely go for American girls. You know what Russian women like? Your honesty. There may be some people out there who want all fun and games, and then there are people out there who want to be called out on their bullshit, whatever gets your ball rolling, we are fine with it just as long as you know what you are in for. Too much straight forwardness can be pains in you know what too.

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Dating culture in Russia

The Russian culture is very diverse and beautiful.  Dating is a common trend in the Russian tradition. However, there are some aberrations that a man must know before Russian dating.

Importance of religion

This is the first thing that you should keep in mind when you are dating a Russian lady. The religion is a vital factor for Russian ladies. There are a few myths that it makes Russian ladies more traditional and shy. But the truth is that it makes them more confident and bold. If you are dating a Russian beauty, you must be careful about her views of religion and views.

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Status of relationship should be clear

If you date a Russian woman, you must be clear for the relationship. You cannot claim this relationship is a “hook up”, “seeing each other” and “hanging out”. You are dating her and that is the truth. If you will simply claim that it is an unknown relationship, you might lose her chances.

Open culture and limits

Russia is not an open culture country. There is a level of conservative approach. A Woman in Russia cannot do bold acts on her first encounter. Hence, you should show some patience. Give her the required time and space she needs to evaluate her position before she becomes comfortable to do bold stuff with you. This might sound odd to you but it is the main property of every Russian dating women that makes her the most valuable asset on this planet. Admit it guys, you cannot like a bold girl immediately.

Significance of clothing

The final and most wanted target of every Russian lady is to get a husband. So, if you are dating, then expect to wear the best dress that you got. This is not going to be a causal date for her. You are an image of her husband. You must look like a husband. Causal wears will make her abhor to your personality. Always dress properly for if you are meeting Russian ladies.

Respect of her choice and motives

Do not question her motives while you are dating a Russian beauty. This cannot go well for you. Do not take this risk. Just wait for her clear actions based on your performance. Do not compel her for a relationship. This will set a bad repute. Beautiful women Russian like to be a man but they always choose a smart and good guy, who will respect them.

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Wife-Carrying Championship in Ukraine

Have you ever heard of men complaining they cannot get their Russian brides off their backs? Did you know, though, that there are men who not only carry their wives on their backs but also enjoy and profit from it? Welcome to the Wife-Carrying Championship in Ukraine where hot Russian women get free rides on men’s backs!

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Like any other popular sport, wife carrying has champions. Since Finnish people are the originators of this weird but exciting sport, they produce most champions. Russia ladies also make a show as the ‘burdens’ that men must carry to win the race!

Here are the superstars of wife-carrying championship:

  1. Taisto Miettinen and Kristina Haapanen – Finland
  2. Vyshgorod’s Andriy and Alyona Fedosenko –Ukraine
  3. Volodomyr and Maryana Gula – Ukraine

The Finns are professionals while Ukrainians are amateurs if the results are anything to go by. But some people have discovered that having hot Russian brides can help one win!

How it works

This is the best opportunity you have to get a Russian bride, especially by deciding whether she is light enough to be carried on the back while racing through obstacles. The race entails a man carrying a woman (assumed to be his wife) on the back then sprinting on a specified course. Now, this course has puddles of mud and other obstacles that the man and his Russian woman must overcome to be declared winners.

So, what is the price for all the effort? The winner (although I think only the men win and the hot Russian brides are simply joyriders), gets Ukrainian root beer of the same weight as the woman! Well, it is important to note that this is just mild alcohol that is manufactured locally from berries, rye bread and yeast.

As you travel to participate in the championship, visit Russian dating sites to get the right woman. Remember the more the weight of the woman, the harder it is to win.

You also need to know a few things about Ukrainian and Russian women that will help you in Russian dating:

  1. As long as they believe they love you and you love them too, you can go with them to the end of the world.
  2. They believe in destiny: if the two of you were meant to be together, nothing will separate you.
  3. They respect and adore their husbands who are also regarded as the undisputed heads of the home.
  4. The man provides while the woman keeps the home together.

It’s time you sampled Russian brides online and planned to attend the wife-carrying festival with any of the Russian hot brides available.

Don’t know where to find Russian wife?I will introduce the best Russian dating site for you to make a connection with russian girls: Charmdate.com

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About Charmdate

Charm date is an international dating website for men and women to find a husband or wife from Russia or Ukraine. Charm Date is part of the Qpid Network. Qpid is the company that also runs the dating sites:Asiame.com and LantamDate.com. Dating overseas may not be the first thought in someone’s head when it comes to finding your soulmate because there are not only barriers of distance but barriers of language and culture as well. But, Charm Date makes it possible to do so. Think beyond borders, think long term love, think Charm Date.

You may think is Charmdate.com legit? YES,you can get your answer by watching some video of Charmdate review.

Charm Date Pros

Charm Date allows you to talk to men and women from Russia and Ukraine with no fear of the unknown because they provide a translator for you. The stress of not understanding your date is thrown out the door. That is a major plus for an international dating website.

The username and password is an account for all four Qpid Network international dating websites, therefore it is simple to bounce from site to site with the click of a button.

Charm Date Cons

You are not allowed to view all photos without a premium subscription. Everything costs credits to view. Videos are only available to premium members that purchase credits.
The pop-up chats on the side are a bit annoying if you are trying to focus on another aspect of the site.

Serives of  Charmdate

1.Live Chat :Live Chat is the way that you can talk with the ladies on Charmdate.This service help you get closer instantly with real-time text messaging and emotions in live chat!Everyone can send emoticons ,voice messages,photos and more.Turn on video to see the face of your contact.

2.Camshare:Camshare is a real-time two-way video chat service,it can fulfill your needs!CamShare is even higher definition, and has an even larger video display. Because it’s real-time and two-way, it’s even more intimate and interactive!

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Is it wrong or right to give a Russian girl flower?

Giving flowers to the girl you love has become a symbol of expression of love world over. Though the practice has become mundane in some parts of the world and girls would prefer the guy to buy her jewelry or anything expensive but Russian women still appreciate the practice. However, there are certain dos and don’ts when it comes to giving Russian singles flowers.

If you must give a Russian bride a flower, make sure it is neat and presentable. A shabby looking flower may easily suggest to her that you would not handle her well if she gets married to you or that she means less priority to you. If you cannot give Russian pretty girls a decent flower, then it is best to avoid giving her flower entirely because to her, the flower in your hand is her in your hand.

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The color of the flower also matters a lot. When dating Russian women, it is always good to learn about their customs and one of them is that yellow means ‘I am fed up with you’. A Russian guy that wants to break up with his girlfriend will only need to give her a yellow flower and she will definitely understand what he means. Unless your girl really loves yellow, avoid yellow flowers. It is best to give her a flower that matches her best color.

Beautiful Russian girls will prefer you to give her one flower rather than a bouquet. Generally, flowers are sold in odd numbers in Russia and it has become a tradition that even number flowers are for the cemetery to be laid on the grave of a loved one. Thirteen flowers are also known to bring bad luck and you should avoid giving this to your single Russian lady. To be on a safe side, foreigners should learn to explain their actions to their lady Russian so they won’t get misunderstood.

To stand a better chance at impressing your Russian pretty girls when giving her a flower, choose a flower that is native to Russia. It is OK to think of giving her an American flower but be sure to know that she will prefer a Russian flower whose meaning she can easily interpret. A foreign flower may not be easy for her to interpret leaving her in a limbo – a place no Russian girl wants to be. If you must give her a foreign flower, tag it along with the native flower and Chamomiles is the most appreciated among Russian girls.

If you date with Russian girl and feel like giving her a flower, always take note of the quality of flower. Flowers are believed to convey feelings in Russia. If you give your girl a flower that withers the next day she will take it that you do not have a strong emotion towards her. Girls in Russia attach emotions to flowers. Fresh flowers can be identified by the shade of their leaf edge. A dark looking edge is a sign that the flower was not freshly cut.

Avoid flowers with pale reddish pink color. Red in Russia brings back the memory of war during the Soviet Union. These are the kind of flowers that were laid on the graves of soldiers that never returned from the war. Till date, red is a symbol of death. When you give a red flower to your date, she may just take it that you wish her death. On the other hand, it also brings back memories of war which is one memory no one will want to constantly remember.

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Why Dating A Russian Girl Is Not Easy?

Dating Russian girls can be very much fun as one gets addicted to the adrenaline rush of knowing someone new. Russian girls are very sexy and you can be over whelmed by their physical appearance. Before you know, you will fall in love Russian girl. But you should also keep in mind the struggles of dating Russian girls.

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Obsession with Physical Appearance:

Russian girls are obsessed with their physical appearance. They spend hours and hours on their body to look perfect. They are irrationally obsessed with themselves and will be preoccupied with their looks only.

Long Delays before Dates:

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You will have to wait for a long time before she gets ready for your date. It is not a big deal for her to delay the time of date by an hour or so. Make it part of your pre-date activity to wait for her to get ready. Then you can enjoy her company in little time you are left with.

Indifferent About Your Presence:

Since Russian sexy is always obsessed with her looks and her mind will be pre-occupied by the thoughts of her looks. She will only be concerned if she is looking beautiful or not. She will be demanding a lot of compliments too. So, most of your job on how to get a Russian wife date is to pay her a lot of compliments. You will not get much of chance to say anything else to her.

Incomprehensible Humor:

Russian humor is very different and it will be hard for you to understand the humor. Since, you will not be able to understand the joke so it is possible that you might get offended time and again. And it will be likely to happen that what Russian women want she does not understand your humor as well. A relationship gets boring without the humor.

Impenetrable Accent:

At first her accent might appear cute to you and quite pleasant for your ears. But, you will probably not understand half of the things she says. So, it will be hard for you to keep up with the conversation.

Russian Girls and Their Superstitions:

Your relationship might be going really smooth with your girl but you have to wait for it to be upset by never ending superstitions of your Russian mail-order wife. At start, everything seems cute and pleasant but you are certainly going to get annoyed by her myths. For instance you will not be allowed to whistle inside the house just because you will have no money or you cannot sit at a table corner or else you will not get married ever. This list does not stop ever.

You will put on Weight:

As soon as you visit their parents, they will be really friendly to you. And they will offer you to eat a lot of Russian dishes which you do not know names of. They will force feed you even if you are not hungry. If you refuse to eat then you will be considered rude.

Strange Russian Dishes:

You will be forced to eat weird food. It does not matter how much bizarre a dish seems, you will be expected to eat it enjoy it and you do not want to look rude by not paying them compliment.

Alcohol Tolerance is Really High:

You cannot keep up with the quantity of alcohol your sexy hot babe consumes. And it will be nice if you accompany her when she is drinking. But it will be really hard for you to match with her pace.

Too much Straightforward:

As much as you like straightforward opinions but sometimes it gets TOO MUCH! Even if you are hurt then do not await sympathies or emotional support. They will tell you to get over it and stop being a baby.

Have Fun Dealing/Dating Your Russian Girl!